End of Life Plans
In
attending to our deaths in the midst of life, many people find that they have shed a burden and can live their lives
more fully. I can help you to think clearly about
how you would like to die, ideally, and what you would like to happen in the
aftermath of your death, ideally, and go through the process of creating a ceremony, and a statement of your wishes concerning your dying and your death. This is a truly loving deed for those close to you, who
otherwise in the midst of sorrow may have no idea, or many different
memories of what your wishes would be.
Of
course no one can tell how they will die, and so it is
important , having drawn up your wishes, to
then make sure that no one feels under pressure to make your wishes
happen if circumstances dictate otherwise. It is
a process of making plans, and then of letting them go, as with so many things
in life. .
The recognition that
death comes to each of us, a recognition at once consolatory and conciliatory,
brings us closer to one another and closer still to the innermost truth of our
own being.
